Grammy Award-winning producer Black Coffee has revealed that he was disappointed when his estranged wife Enhle Mbali Mlotswa was reluctant to buy him a car during their marriage. I was labeled a narcissist.
Drinking black coffee when buying a luxury car will make you feel more luxurious
In an interview with Thabo “T-Bose” Mokwele appears on Kaya FMduring his marriage to the actress, DJ (real name Nkosinati Makhumulo) bought her a luxury car, hoping that she would like it and show her utmost gratitude, but she did not buy it. I explained that it wasn't there.
“One day I bought my ex-husband a really fancy car and the reaction wasn't what I expected. She wasn't as excited as I had expected her to be. And esp. To me at the time, it was a super luxury car and I was even expecting her to cry. She was like, “Oh, that's nice.'' Thank you,” he said.
“And as someone who is not grateful, that stuck with me for a long time.”
When asked what he learned from that, Mr. Black Coffee replied: There are things we wish for people, and there are things people wish for themselves. And we make the mistake of imposing our wishes on them. ”
DJ talks about his views on marriage
Up until this point, Black Coffee explained that he had modeled marriage in his own way, without discussing it or involving his partner.
“Because of my upbringing and my parents' failed marriages and not having either of my parents raise me, I built my own world and thought, 'If I get a chance to do this, I'm going to do it.' Please do it like this.”
“[I did that] I want to lead in everything. We want to cover everything. You want to be the driver of this thing so much that you forget that there's a person next to you with a map… You're the driver, you're the navigator, and you're both important. is.
“So every time I made a big move for us, it wasn't well received.” [with appreciation] A part of me was dying. Because I thought, “Trust me, I know how this works.” trust me. Please let me move forward with this matter. ”
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The former couple have been at odds since reports of their breakup broke in 2019. Married as a DJ and having two children with other women during their marriage, their separation centered on allegations of infidelity and abuse.
In March 2021, Enhle filed for a protection order against her ex-girlfriend, alleging that the DJ abused her at a birthday party at her fiancée's home.
The two ex-lovers also attacked each other on social media. We Dance Again After their breakup, DJ went on a rant about gifting his ex-wife a car with R65,000 in upkeep.
After Black Coffee's interview on Kaya FM, especially the part about luxury cars, user X claimed that he thought he could trick Enhle and then send him a “bribe.”
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