South African beauty influencer Mihlali Ndamase has published an open letter in response to allegations of abuse from her ex-boyfriend, Leeroy Sidambe.
Leroy had publicly explained that he had not abused the influencer, but that he had defended himself after she tried to stab him with a knife.
In her open letter, Mihlali spoke about the assault, abuse and manipulation she had endured since the start of their relationship.
“It was an incredibly painful thing to admit I was in a toxic relationship. It escalated quickly to the point where I was physically harming myself,” she said.
“After enduring gaslighting, attacks, emotional abuse, manipulation, compulsive behavior and control tactics, you can only remain silent for so long.”
“These cases are complicated, escalate over time and can be difficult to understand, especially for those who don't have personal experience, but that doesn't make my story any less credible or invalid.”
“Despite the darkness that has clouded my past, I am filled with hope and determination to embark on a journey of healing.
Mihlali Ndamase says she is focused on healing and regaining her self-esteem.
“I am committed to seeking the support and resources I need to reclaim my dignity and self-worth. Through my healing journey, I hope to inspire others to speak up, seek help, and leave toxic environments,” she concluded.