Tobeka Madjozi finally broke her long silence about her relationship with Cassper Nyovest on her birthday.
The two famous socialites were in love and the two had a son named Kotso.
Earlier this year, Casper announced that his relationship with Tobeka, also known as Bex Does It Better, had ended due to his infidelity.
Tobeka announced on Instagram this Wednesday that it's her birthday.
She started writing a long note about why this birthday was special. The influencer opened up about how she found out about Nyovest's infidelity while caring for her son, who was battling cancer.
“This year's birthday will be different than any other. The past few years have been so fulfilling and looking back, I'm filled with gratitude. Who would have thought I'd be here? , in peace. The tears that were once silent now come out laughing loudly. I am actually in awe of God's mercy. Did I deserve his covering power and grace? He remained faithful to me even when I was unfaithful to God,” she wrote.
“I've always heard that God appears in certain places. Little did I know that I would find Him when I was at my lowest and most broken. When I was 8 months old, my son was diagnosed with cancer. I was diagnosed with a completely different world. I've always valued protection and privacy. Trying to keep my world together has been a marathon in and of itself.
Madjozi said Casper tried to make amends after he was caught.
“I lived with my son in an oncology hospital for two years as he underwent chemotherapy and life-threatening surgeries. In the midst of his battle with cancer. I was hit with the curveball of an affair. The woman knew about my and my son's situation and made no mistake in flaunting their relationship. After finding out about it, he ended his relationship with her and tried to make amends with me. ”
In the memo, Torbeka revealed that the woman Casper Nyovest married was the woman he had an affair with.
“I couldn't trust someone who would hurt the worst of me and allow other women to disrespect their women. After everything we've been through, it was more about timing than infidelity. That was a problem. He then married her.”
“It started in between home discharges and new projects. I had to stop life, put my emotions aside, and show up for my baby. At the time, I cared more about his health than my heart. was more important. One of the things we do is enjoy the world. Faith and family were the answer to everything. Living and loving was our source. They understood our mission.”
“I landed in the center of God's hand. He brought me exactly where he needed me. I gave my life to Jesus. I entered a period of isolation. He brought me exactly where he needed me. has placed me in his secret place. He has improved my character, renewed my mind, and restored my mind. The work is not yet finished. I am dead to myself. He continues to mold me into a complete potter. I am fully in my yes girl phase and am walking in love and forgiveness most days. It's better than ever. Still, I have peace. I still don't know what God has in store for me. Today, my son has more reason to celebrate. I am free from cancer. This is all glory to God.”